Hospice and Home Care: How They Work Together at the End of Life

Hospice provides medical and emotional support at the end of life: nurse visits, pain and symptom management, equipment, medications related to the terminal illness, a social worker, and a chaplain. It does not provide a caregiver in the home around the clock. Most families rely on themselves or a private home care agency for the daily hands-on care, overnights, and supervision between hospice visits. The two services are designed to work side by side.

When a parent enrolls in hospice at home, many families assume someone will be there all the time. Then the first week arrives, the nurse visits for an hour, and the family realizes they are responsible for everything in between: turning, toileting, feeding, medications on schedule, and being awake at 3 a.m. This gap is the most common source of exhaustion and guilt for families during hospice care. Hospice and home care work best together: hospice provides the medical team, and a hospice at home caregiver from a private agency covers the hours in between.

This guide explains exactly what hospice covers, where private home care fits, and how to plan the hours.

What does hospice cover at home?

Under the Medicare hospice benefit, which Medi-Cal and most private insurance mirror, hospice covers:

  • Regular visits from a registered nurse and a hospice aide
  • Physician oversight and a hospice medical director
  • Medications for pain and symptoms related to the terminal diagnosis
  • Medical equipment such as a hospital bed, wheelchair, and oxygen
  • Supplies such as incontinence products and wound dressings
  • Social worker and chaplain support
  • Bereavement support for the family for about a year after death
  • 24/7 phone access to a hospice nurse

What does hospice not cover?

  • Nurse visits and symptom management
    • Covered by hospice? Yes
    • Who usually fills it: Hospice
  • Hospice aide for bathing (a few times per week, short visits)
    • Covered by hospice? Yes
    • Who usually fills it: Hospice
  • Hands-on help between visits
    • Covered by hospice? No
    • Who usually fills it: Family or private caregiver
  • Overnight supervision
    • Covered by hospice? No
    • Who usually fills it: Family or private caregiver
  • Meals, laundry, housekeeping
    • Covered by hospice? Generally no
    • Who usually fills it: Family or private caregiver
  • Around-the-clock caregiver at home
    • Covered by hospice? No (except short crisis periods)
    • Who usually fills it: Private 24-hour care
  • Short inpatient respite for the family
    • Covered by hospice? Yes, up to 5 days at a time in a facility
    • Who usually fills it: Hospice

Hospice can provide “continuous home care” during a short medical crisis, such as uncontrolled pain, but this is temporary. It is not a way to get ongoing 24-hour caregiving.

How do private caregivers work with hospice?

A private caregiver from a licensed home care agency provides the non-medical care the hospice team does not:

  • Repositioning every few hours to prevent pressure sores
  • Toileting, incontinence care, and changing linens
  • Feeding assistance and offering sips of fluid
  • Mouth care and gentle hygiene
  • Reminding the family when medications are due and observing effects
  • Watching for changes (breathing, agitation, pain) and calling the hospice nurse
  • Sitting with your parent so family members can sleep, eat, or simply be family

The caregiver follows the hospice plan of care. The hospice nurse remains in charge of medical decisions, and a good agency will coordinate directly with the hospice team. Nona’s partners with hospice teams across San Diego and Orange County and regularly places caregivers in hospice homes.

How many hours of private care do families need during hospice?

  • Early (still somewhat mobile, family nearby): 4 to 8 hours per day, or overnights only
  • Middle (mostly bed-bound, needs turning): 12 hours per day, often overnight
  • Final weeks or days: 24-hour care, rotating caregivers

Overnight care is often the first thing families add. A family caregiver who has not slept in a week cannot be present in the way they want to be. See our 24-hour care options and our comparison of live-in vs. 24-hour care.

How much does private home care cost during hospice?

Medicare pays for hospice itself, usually with no cost to the family. Private caregiving is paid separately. At Nona’s, hourly care is $40 to $50 per hour depending on the level of care, and 24-hour care is $850 to $1,100 per day depending on care. Long-term care insurance usually continues to pay during hospice, and VA benefits may help for veterans. Because hospice timelines are unpredictable, it matters that Nona’s has no minimums, no deposits, and no long-term contracts.

When should a family consider hospice?

Hospice is available when a doctor certifies that a person likely has six months or less to live if the illness runs its normal course. Many families wait too long; the median hospice stay is only a few weeks, even though the benefit is designed for months. Signs it may be time to ask the doctor include repeated hospitalizations, steady weight loss, sleeping most of the day, and a decision to stop treatment aimed at a cure.

Choosing hospice does not mean giving up. People can leave hospice if they improve or change their mind.

How do you support the family during hospice at home?

The hardest part of hospice at home is often not the medical care but the fatigue, anticipatory grief, and family tension. Practical steps help:

  • Divide roles clearly: one person talks to the hospice nurse, another handles visitors, another manages meals.
  • Protect sleep. Schedule overnight help before exhaustion sets in.
  • Use the hospice social worker and chaplain; they are part of the benefit.
  • Let caregivers handle the physical tasks so family time can be about presence.

Our family caregiver burnout guide covers the warning signs to watch for.

What does a day of hospice and private home care look like?

Families are often unsure how hospice visits and private caregivers fit together in a single day. In practice, the two work side by side, with hospice handling medical oversight and comfort care while the private caregiver covers the hours in between.

  • Morning: The private caregiver helps with gentle bathing or a bed bath, repositioning, mouth care, and a small breakfast if your parent wants one.
  • Midday: A hospice nurse or aide may visit to check symptoms, adjust comfort medications, or help with bathing. The caregiver shares what they have noticed since the last visit.
  • Afternoon: The caregiver keeps your parent comfortable, offers fluids, plays music or reads aloud, and gives family members a chance to rest or run errands.
  • Evening and overnight: If needed, an overnight caregiver watches for discomfort, helps with repositioning, and calls the hospice line if symptoms change.

The rhythm will look different for every family. The key is clear communication, so the hospice team knows who is in the home and the caregiver knows when and how to reach hospice.

How do you choose a caregiver to work alongside hospice?

Not every caregiver is comfortable with end-of-life care. When you are adding private help during hospice, ask the agency about the caregiver’s experience with comfort care, repositioning, and supporting families through the dying process.

Ask how the caregiver will communicate with the hospice team, what they will do if your parent’s breathing changes, and who they will call first. Make sure the caregiver knows about your parent’s POLST or advance directive. Consistency matters a great deal at this stage, so ask whether the agency can keep the same small group of caregivers. A calm, experienced caregiver can make hospice and home care feel like one team, and that gives the family more time to simply be present.

How do families care for themselves during hospice?

Hospice is emotionally and physically demanding for families, even with extra help. Take turns resting, accept meals and offers of help, and use the hospice team’s social workers and chaplains, who are there for the family as well as the patient.

Private caregivers can give family members the time to sleep, eat, and simply be present without managing every task. Many families say that having a caregiver handle personal care let them spend their time as a spouse, son, or daughter rather than as a nurse. Hospice bereavement services often continue after a death and can help with grief.

Frequently asked questions

Does hospice provide 24-hour care at home? No. Hospice provides visits and 24/7 phone support, plus short-term continuous care during a crisis. Families arrange ongoing 24-hour care themselves.

Can you have a private caregiver and hospice at the same time? Yes. This is common and encouraged. The caregiver provides daily care; hospice provides medical oversight.

Does Medicare pay for a caregiver during hospice? Medicare covers hospice aide visits but not ongoing private caregivers.

Who is in charge of care: hospice or the home care agency? The hospice team directs medical care. The home care agency follows that plan and reports changes.

Can hospice be provided in a board and care or assisted living home? Yes. Hospice comes to wherever your parent lives, including residential care homes.

Hospice and home care together: key points

Does hospice provide 24-hour care? No. Hospice provides nurses, aides for short visits, equipment, medications, and emotional support, but not a caregiver in the home around the clock. That is why families combine hospice and home care, adding a private caregiver with hospice for daily hands-on help, overnights, and supervision.

Start with the hardest hours, usually nights and personal care, and expect needs to increase over time. Private end of life care at home costs $40 to $50 per hour depending on the level of care, and 24-hour care is $850 to $1,100 per day. Long-term care insurance often keeps paying during hospice, so check your policy. Our 24-hour home care services and guide to live-in vs. 24-hour home care explain the options for around-the-clock coverage.